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Can somebody please try and decode this weird behaviour?

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bbbbbinng · 14/08/2017 21:04

Hi everyone,

I met a guy on Bumble like last month. We've seen each other twice, and we slept together on the 2nd date.

I'm not looking for anything serious at all, but had a nice time and would like to meet up with him some more. It wouldn't be the end of the world for me if I didn't though.

It's just his behaviour since our 2nd date has been really odd.

Basically he'll always text me first asking about my day and being all flirty and stuff, he also references little jokes that we had on our dates so I know it's not some generic text he sends to loads of people.

It's just then he never replies when I text him back. I normally mirror his text, so just keep it light and a bit flirty back. But then nothing from him..

I honestly can't get my head round it. If he really wasn't feeling it, or into me then why bother texting in the first place?

It's happened like 4 times now in the space of a week. I can tell he's read my replies and he's online loads so just like wtttff??

Can anyone shed some light on this behaviour please as it's driving me nuts.

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Shoxfordian · 14/08/2017 21:11

Probably just keeping you on the hook or interested in case he wants another shag but doesn't want anything more from you

Stop texting back and find another one

Aquamarine1029 · 14/08/2017 21:15

What Shox said. Definitely keeping you on the hook for sex. If that's ok with you then march on.

bbbbbinng · 14/08/2017 21:36

Yeaah I know your right. I just find it really odd. Wish people didn't feel the need to gameplay. They might realise that the other person is pretty much looking for the same thing they are.

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