I never really post things on here but I'm at a loss and in despair I don't know what to do or say. My husband has out of the blue decided he doesn't love me anymore and he is considering leaving. This came out of the blue as three days ago he was telling me how he adores and worships me. After a night of heart to heart it all came out that a while ago he got into a spot of bother and some travellers bailed him out and they are now calling in the debt so to speak. This debt is dangerous and I think he is scared for us and our safety. We have three children and I stopped work recently because our daughter got ill. I just don't know what to do he has gone from the most beautiful caring attentive husband to one that says he feels numb and pressured and needs to sort his sh@£t out. I'm scared I'm so in love with this man it's unbelievable can't eat can't sleep keep crying. What can I do please help