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Would this put most men off?

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kindregardstoyou · 14/08/2017 01:11

So, friend is 8 months pregnant and married. They were living together with parents to save for a house until she decided she wasn't sure if she wanted to be married anymore. She initially said she just gradually lost feeling for him, but has now admitted she has feelings for someone else.

Don't want to push her for too much info as she's expecting, so just trying to support her with baby.

She hasn't said if this person reciprocates her feelings, or even if this person knows how she feels.

Do you think many men would be happy to form a relationship with a woman who's so heavily pregnant with her husband's baby? I'm not criticising it, I'm just intrigued really. I had assumed men would be put off by this, but I'm guessing maybe not now. I asked DP how he'd have felt if I'd been heavily pregnant when he met me. He said he'd have run a mile!  Thanks DP!!!

Just pondering how this is going to pan out for her and baby. 

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c3pu · 21/08/2017 19:57

Seeems likely to end up as something of a train wreck.

Hopefully she won't turn out to be a serial cheater, and he won't turn out to be a crap stepfather.

SandyY2K · 21/08/2017 20:15

Some men have a fetish for heavily pregnant women. They go as far as paying for sex with them.

She must have really disconnected from her husband to have an affair while pregnant though.

I have to question what's going on in the mind of a man who gets involved with a pregnant married woman though. Low morals all round.

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