I don't know whats in his head

[Pancaake]

Ive been seeing this guy for about 3 months.we see each other twice a week as he lives far and drives down to see me when he can. He is 25 im 29 and have a child. When we see each other its amazing, hes caring and we have an amazing chemistry, but i do feel like hes so defensive of hes feelings that i dont really know if he likes me or not. One moment i feel like he does but at other times i feel like he maybe just want sex. At the beginning he said to me that he wpuldnt mind if i saw other people but when i didnt text him one evening he send me 10 messages and then the next day he said ' i was scared you run off with someone else' maybe hes just sacred becauae i have a child or scared of commitment in general. Im so scared to fall for him and i think i could. Should i just take it slow? Or let it go...

Ask him.

After three months, make your mind up time is reasonable.

You don't have to chug along in the dark dancing to his tune.

Considering it's only been 3 months and he's already showing signs of jealous/controlling behaviour I'd let it go. Will only get worse later on.

After 3 months, I think it's a good time to have a chat about how you wouldn't have minded seeing other people at the beginning, but now it's time to make things exclusive.

Are you focussing on if he likes you? Rather than if you like him enough? Your instinct is saying something isn't quite right.What is it that you don't like?

Im just worried because of the things he said at the beginning. Im so scared to open up and i feel like im gonna push him away without giving this a chance. Because ehen we are together im so happy. Im also worried that he will be too scared to commit because i have a child. I think im overtjinking this too much...

Sweet Jesus, it's time to start acting like an adult. Tell him what's on your mind and have a discussion as to where this relationship in heading. If he balks or gets defensive or weird, there's your answer - you're wasting your time so move on. After 3 months you should both be able to communicate and find out if you want the same things. If he's jealous or controlling, get out and run like hell.

After 3 months it's time to have an honest chat about how you both feel and where your relationship is heading.

He's sending mixed messages, so get your need for a bit of clarity. Don't lay it on heavy though