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What would you do?

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Movingon1611 · 12/08/2017 10:27

My stbxh is on 40mg citalopram (anti depressant) and has been since September last year after a few months on 20mg which didn't work.

I found out yesterday that since January he's been skipping doses, only taking it when he needs a "pick me up" and says it's because he feels better now- yet he doesn't see the need to go back to the dr and is refilling his prescription on time every month.

Now, since January is when he signed up to online dating and in march he met the woman he left me for in April.
He's definitely more paranoid, more reckless, more up and down which is why I broached the subject with him.

He says he's discussed it with his girlfriend and it's all sorted but won't tell me how it's "all sorted"

I know how he lives his life is up to him, but we have 2DC aged 9 and 3 who he is supposed to have for the day by himself tomorrow- I don't feel comfortable in that now I know what I know.

What do I do?

OP posts:
scrabbler3 · 12/08/2017 17:26

I think that you should discuss this with the solicitor dealing with your divorce. The 3 year old especially could be in quite a vulnerable position if contact went ahead.

Hopefully someone more familiar with the meds will be able to comment as well.

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