I've got myself into a stupor and can't work out what is wrong. I've been dating my partner seriously for just short of 10 months now. We live together and he works nights so we hardly get to see each other. Anyway, he never wants sex, always says he's too tired, not in the mood, feels dirty... basically any excuse and now I've gotten to the point where I feel like he's disgusted at me and therefore I feel like shit and have no self confidence now as he constantly mastrubates when I'm out of sight... evidence on the sheets (sorry). Any sexual advances I've made have been rejected.
He says he's tired all the time but goes to work early. I do everything but wipe his a**e, pack him out every day so he never has anything like that to worry about.
The thing is, there is a girl where he works that he want 'innocently' flirting with via text, which I found on his phone early on in the relationship. He assured me that there was nothing in it, but it still upset me and the fact that she works at the same place makes me feel uncomfortable and wondering if the two are connected.
I thought at 10 months in the relationship should still be fresh and exciting but it's stale and making me feel like shit.
Just want to know what anyone on the outside looking in thinks?