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What should I do?

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Sushi123 · 10/08/2017 19:50

First of all, I know some of this might sound a bit snobby but it is what it is. I've a history of being attracted to 'a bit off rough' (not as in physical roughness, but I like a bad boy/lovable rogue type of guy). After my last relationship ended I swore to my see that I would no longer consider this type of man as a boyfriend as I the relationship always begins because of sexual attraction and not because I we'd make a good couple once that dies down a bit. I want to meet someone who has a good job, nice manners, educated and with similar interests, who I also find attractive. Anyway, I've recently had to cover holidays for someone in work who is based at another branch - one of the guys in the department I was managing definitely fell into the lovable rogue category. I know I would never want anything long term with him as my family would turn their noses up at him, but there was a definite mutual attraction between us and I just want him to rip my clothes off. Should I pursue it or forget about him. I no longer need to work there at the minute but cod be called back from time to time??

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Walkacrossthesand · 10/08/2017 20:28

Ummm - haven't you answered your own question? You 'swore to yourself you'd never do the 'bit of rough' again - so do you mean that, or not? It's up to you, really...

Sushi123 · 10/08/2017 20:31

I know! Hopefully I can forget about him, but when ya haven't had sex in two years, never thought you'd be attracted to anyone again, or have someone fancy you, and the chemistry is amazing it's hard not to be tempted.

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Sushi123 · 10/08/2017 20:33

I won't do it, cos I'd really be treating him like a piece of meat, and I think he's probably sensitive deep down, I'd end up hurting him. At least now know that I'm not dead in that department which I thought I was

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Aquamarine1029 · 10/08/2017 23:43

What concerns me the most is what you said about your family. You would turn down a relationship because your family would "turn their nose up?" Are you a grown woman or a child? If you found a wonderful person, who cares what your family thinks?

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