Hi long term lurker here, but am really stuck at the moment and could really do with some advice from anyone who has been in a similar situation. Some details have been changed so as not to out me.
So I have been with partner for 13 years, 2 kids, aged 2 and 5. He has always been a bit short tempered never hit me, or kids, but will easily fly off the handle, shout kick stuff etc.
Last week we had a big blow up, i am unsure if the details of the fall out are relevant but we both shouted at each other, I instigated it, he took it to the next level, I had to call the police as he was loosing it and wrecking the house and I was scared. I then left the house and have been at my mums since.
We have spoken a little via text but tonight he called and he got really angry again, calling me names, blaming me for making him angry, and threatened to Take his own life, I panicked and called 111 to try and see if I could get some advice from out of hours gp, he called again about ten mins later and I asked if they had spoke to him, at which point he goes nuclear and calls me all the names under the sun and refused to speak to NHS direct and said I was trying to get him sectioned.
Someone close to me has been dispatched to the house where he is to check on him, but now I am sat here shitting myself and do not know how to proceed.
I do not think this relationship can be salvaged but with the threat of suicide about I'm a scared, am also scared to go back to the house. Can anyone help? Obviously I have let out quite a bit of info or I would be here all night, not intentionally drip feeding but think I had added the important parts