My lovely brother has a great girlfriend - they've been together about 4 years, he split from his ex wife several years ago. It's all tickety boo, they've just got engaged and I like his new GF a lot, she's down to earth, fun, most importantly she really loves him and she's great with his daughter from his previous marriage.
His ex was... ok. But she was imo a bit vain and into herself. She was seeing another man & he walked away. She didn't stay with the affair. She's friends with me on FB because occasionally I work with her company - she's always superficially friendly and we grab a coffee sometimes at lunch, but we aren't friends outside of the one week every couple of months we have to work on a project.
Current girlfriend was here the other night when we had all the kids here for a sleepover, put the kids to bed and then we had a drink. She told me that she's been told by a friend that his ex has all their wedding photos and their honeymoon photos up on FB still. She knows I work with the ex sometimes and she asked me whether she should message the ex and ask her nicely to take them down as he is now going to be married to her. I wasn't sure about this as his ex is a bit defensive and I said I thought she would refuse and that she'd also maybe get a rise out of his current gf having to ask.
I kind of think she's better off just ignoring it, because she's the one who is marrying him now, it's a bit embarrassing for his ex to have those pics up still. What would you do? I've told her to leave it for now and that maybe the ex will get the hint and take them down after enough people have told her about the wedding.