I know me again. Im sorry. I try and it never happens. I got him to leave a while back then stupidly took DD to see him and he ended up worming his way back. Like he cant even visit he will sit down and refuse to leave. He used to stay a few nights when he was working. when he lost his job he never looked for another. He had no intention but he fooled me. He pays for nothing, puts me down, can be horrible to DD and I know he has to go. For anyone who remembers my last thread - he is not supposed to be staying here despite me telling him to go. he uses it agaisnt me saying dd will be taken away or I will lose my house. I made it to the housing association a few weeks back but bottled it when they told me I couldnt speak to someone in private plus I had dd with me so not ideal. I was scared but I wanted to try and tell someone. Its wearing me down. He complains about my house but he cant even do simple tasks like put up a curtain pole. He stormed off over it and went on and on. My life is a mess and Im hormonal right now. What can I do now?