I've been a lurker for many years and seen how helpful everyone can be so I'm hoping for some advice that I can't seem to find in RL.
My grandparents are both not in great health sadly, both with dementia among other things. My mum is one of 4 children but like many families there has been a falling out among the siblings and only my eldest aunt has power of attorney for them, (if the church needed another martyr she would put her name forward!) it became aparant at our weekly visit to my grandparents todays that they were both worried about money and a few scary details have come to light today that we are now dealing with, my DM is now in utter panic about what happens to the debt that her sister has racked up in her parents names if the worse should happen. Do any of you lovely lot know the answer, I'm hoping you do as information online is very confusing at best! We're in Scotland if that makes any difference.
Sorry for the long post, didn't realise the length until I reread!