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Sister jealous of pregnancy

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Hannabee123 · 30/07/2017 18:47

My sister has been really aggressive and hateful since I announced my pregnancy. She first started to post about me on Facebook and then went on to be vile about me and my partner. We made up but we have been very distant.
She has recently announced that she is pregnant too and I have tried to show an interest although I am not getting much conversation out of her.
I went to my parents today as I hardly see them due to living far away... She and her partner shown up. She didn't say a word to me and then argued when I asked why she wasn't talking to me. It ended up in a massive family argument.
Me and my partner decided to leave and.it was upsetting as I haven't seen anyone for a while. I had a call off my father saying I am not welcome around the house anymore until this is sorted.

How am I supposed to sort this when I have no idea what to sort? She is jealous and vile and I make an effort she doesnt. She doesn't even know my address and I've been living away for a year. I've made an effort to visit her new place. I work 60 hours a week and still find time.

I want to just cut her out my life compley. Anyone been through something similar? Confused

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ReturnfromtheStars · 30/07/2017 19:45

Has she always been a favourite child?

Hissy · 30/07/2017 19:49

Leave them ALL to it. They are all pricks.

You're better off with your dp, focus on him and your child.

ClemDanfango · 30/07/2017 19:54

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Mum2jenny · 30/07/2017 19:58

Just ignore the lot of them until one of them actually contacts you ( you may still want to ignore them though). I'd not be doing any running after them.

Maybe try and discuss issues with your parents after the dust has settled but don't be surprised if they back your sister. Families can be really wierd and disfunctional.

Hannabee123 · 30/07/2017 20:41

My sister wanted to be the first to have a child I guess? I don't know why she is just vile.
My dad and mother have both contacted me with abuse so I've deactivated my face book and not interested in hearing any more Angry

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Mum2jenny · 30/07/2017 21:06

Do what you need to do to protect yourself, ignore the lot of them seems to be a good option currently. Flowers

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