How do you see your ex with someone else?and not feel like total ....

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He dumped me 7 months ago and it was only a 5 month thing.
He was so intense tho,talking about who our kids would support,he was so into me.
Only problem was he lived a hour away.
He didn't even end it he just stopped calling.
Within 2 weeks he got with this woman and they still together.
I keep looking at his Facebook and his profile pic and it's them together.
I keep thinking what was wrong with me? If he was into me,why did he suddenly change his mind when she came along.
Why did he pick her.
7 months and I'm still like this.
I wish it was me and him together ...
We got on so well,he never told me why.

At first he kept me on his social media then when he must have knew he was going to give it a go with this other girl he deleted me.
I think he kept me on just incase it didn't work out.
I don't even think she's better looking (not that I'm Megan fox either but I don't think I'm horrible)
And I know we got on well so I don't understand.

If I were you I'd block him. Looking at his Facebook fuels the feelings you have.

I had him blocked for 3 months then curiosity got the better of me ...

The fact he dumped you the way he did will be making it worse. You still don't know why so its harder to move on.
To be honest though, do you really want to be with a bloke capable of treating someone like that? Ending things in the most cowardly way? He's not a decent bloke if he has done that, so you really are better off without him. I know its easy for me to say of course.
Stop looking at any social media accounts he has and try to focus your energies elsewhere. Hopefully you will meet someone else yourself soon and you will forget all about him.

Your right -everyone has said the same,no decent bloke does that to someone.
I personally think he was seeing us both near the end last 1-2 weeks.
Then chose her.
It's not just his profile I'm looking at,it's hers too.

And Facebook likes to let you know who has been looking at your page the most. Your name will probably pop up at the top of the list. How embarrassing.

Facebook doesn't show you who's been looking the most..there's no way for anyone to know...thankfully

Don't torture yourself with looking at his facebook anymore. You may have got on really well but unfortunately he didn't feel the same way about you as you did about him and he may have more feelings for the girl he's with now. I know it's hard to accept and I don't mean to sound harsh, but you need to try and move on and stop thinking about him as much...looking at his facebook is only going to keep him fresh in your mind. I've been there myself and in the end it wasn't even him I missed, I missed the "idea" of him and built him up as the perfect man in my head, when he so wasn't. I promise there will come a time when you won't give a toss about him, but for that time to come you need distance and to not be checking up on him.

It might be the idea of him with me too rather than actually him.
I knew the distance was bugging him but I thought he liked me enough.
He was coming out with "I've never felt this way about anyone so soon " "I know I've found a keeper in you"
Even 10 days before he vanished he told me he missed me.
Clearly all lies.
You couldn't do that to someone you cared about.
It was my birthday 7 days after he vanished too and 8 days for Christmas.
I just keep replaying everything over and over,how happy he looked at first,wanting to talk to me all the time etc etc
Wish I knew what I did wrong

Does FB show you who's been looking at your page?

It doesn't no ...thank god.

Now I'm worried incase if does ...

Block him. It's the only way I moved on and now I'm very happy relationship