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What do I do now

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grimbygunk · 29/07/2017 21:43

Just looking for some advice really. Myself and H have decided to split. It's been rocky pretty much our entire relationship and enough is enough. We don't get a long, always arguing, I resent him a lot of the time, to the point where I don't even enjoy to be romantic with him anymore.

He's said I need to leave, we are in rented accommodation through his work. But what exactly do I do now? I am a stay at home parent with our son at the moment and was looking to return to work in September. However if me and my son are to be moving out we would move back down to where my family our. But obviously I cannot afford to rent on my own right now.

Has anyone else been in this situation and could give me advice how to go about this please?

To be honest I'm not even upset about it all right now. Perhaps because I knew it was coming or maybe it just hasn't sunk in yet...

OP posts:
SandyY2K · 29/07/2017 21:46

If the accommodation is through his work, then I think you would need to be the one to leave.

The CAB might be helpful, however you might need to move back to your home town.

GlitterSparkles17 · 29/07/2017 21:46

Can you and your son stay with a family member while you get on your feet and find a job?

grimbygunk · 29/07/2017 21:48

Yes I realise I need to leave the accommodation, I'm just wondering how I go about financially sorting a place for me and my son now.

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grimbygunk · 29/07/2017 21:50

There's a possibility we may be able to go and stay with my mum but she is currently going through a divorce herself right now and having to accommodate my brother and may not be able to afford two more people in house.

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GlitterSparkles17 · 29/07/2017 22:17

I'd talk to your mum and explain the situation, she might be happy to help as long as she knows it's temporary. Start to look for a job asap

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