So my partner came in from work tonight after he has been trying to fill an application form for a new job. We have a 2 mo old and a 4 yr old. Over our relationship he's been snappy but of course I get the blame and I play the victim.
Here is one example so he came in asked me to do a huge favour "please can you take this application form in by hand on Friday as I'm at work" it's about hour drive there and back. I advised I was taking the children for a forest walk on the Friday morning but I could take it after 12....this wasn't good enough for him so he said don't you think this is more importatmt than a walk, don't bother I'll sort it.
AS IF this is my fault....anyway I said why don't you do it tonight and hand it in tomorrow....his reply I have got loads to do , I said what like? He instantly got his back up what do you mean do you want to go over there and have a look what I need to do, do you really think I wouldn't have done it by now if I didn't have classes tomorrow (I had forgotten) but again I should have "known" this. I can't be bothered to argue so I turn around on the settee and try and sleep then he takes a photo of me and sends it in the group saying I'm huffy etc I go up to bed say I'm going to bed then he posts in the group she's gone to bed huffy etc. I replied and said I can't be bothered to take his shit anymore ....then he personal messaged me saying I'm playin the victim well done another argument bla bla. I messaged him back saying I'm not his verbal punching bag and I'm not there to be spoken to like shit.
Please tell me am I going insane?