Abuse

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Has anyone ever taken if further, emotional abuse and won

If bf just keeps saying I just have moments I love you I don't mean to be off , would u take that

Can you explain more. I don't understand?

If bf keeps apologising for abusing you then it means he will never change. He keeps on doing it. Perhaps he can change with counselling but how much are you willing to put up with.

Bf of few yrs is just so hard to get on with, I stay cuz I love him and always forgave for that reason, but all way through his attitude has been awful, but going off last few weekends to be more recent, as weekends are only time I see him as he works away , he snaps at me , he says things that make me feel stupid or insecure, makes me feel low n sad , he don't listen to anything I say , he never sits and enjoys just looking at me anymore n just talking, about anything! When I do talk it's wrong or taken funny, moaned at if going on to much moaned at if silent , I just don't get it thats the bottom line , if he loves me why is he like that why does he want to make anything so shit , he begs on his knees sometimes crying when we have parted n begged me not to walk, so why do that to be like this, he says pay no attention I just have my moments, but I don't buy it and it don't make it right

You need to leave. He's not a nice person and it will only get worse. No one deserves to be treated like that.

I don't understand what you mean by taken it further and won?

He does not sound like a good BF and you sound very unhappy. For those reasons you need to end it. A relationship should make both people happy the vast majority of the time if it doesn't then whats the point?

Hm. It sounds like you're just in a shit relationship where neither of you are really happy. You need to leave, it shouldn't be so miserable.

The only way you can win in this situation is leave him and have no further contact with him. Take the control away from him and live a happy life.

There are decent men out there that understand this behaviour is wrong and unacceptable. Dont settle for anything less than you deserve and you deserve much more.

Stay strong.

It might be worth calling women's aid too. I found them really helpful. Good luck. Xx

It's not right

Please consider leaving him

Think iv pretty much made up my mind to leave for good this time no come backs , think I'm bit scared as in the drama the nastiness he working how he sees our child without me dealing with him all time just want space between us now so I have head space for me to get my life together, I'm terrified he will try take my lil one I'm all she has known and he not right to have her

I doubt very much he will just take her although he may threaten to.
He will have to apply to court if he wants to be rp and if you are currently the main carer it is unlikely to go in his favour.

You and your child deserve better.

Thanks for all your kind words , nice to have someone to talk to could cry now sitting here , you just get to the point don't you when uv just had enough of the battling I'm tired and worn out