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Why don't my relationships ever work out?

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sundown45 · 25/07/2017 21:11

As the title says. I'm feeling like everyone else's relationships work out apart from mine.

I have several friends who lately have split up with their dp's and been heartbroken. But they've now all got back together. Another of my best friends had a complicated fwb situation and now they're together and really happy.

But I broke up with my ex last year, we were on/off for a while and now it really is over. I miss him so much. It doesn't seem fair that it works out for everyone else. I know it won't happen for us as we're not even speaking but I genuinely think he was the one.

I've been in love three times and every single time we've never got back together and it hasn't worked out.

I guess I just feel a bit miserable. I love my friends and want them to be happy but I feel like I'm always the one that is unlucky in relationships.

OP posts:
RunRabbitRunRabbit · 26/07/2017 01:19

Why are they all breaking up then getting back together. That's weird. You are normal.

Getting back together with someone that was worth breaking up with isn't what I'd call successful. Smacks of fear of being alone and so putting up with any old crap to me.

You are smarter than that so when you get the right relationship it will be solid and you'll know it.

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