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He's left me

14 replies

youokayhun · 24/07/2017 21:04

That's it. I don't know how to carry on because my heart hurts so much

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thestamp · 24/07/2017 21:09

Consider your hand held.

Do you want to say a little about what has happened? It will help everyone here support you.

I'm sorry you are in such pain. You will survive it though. You just will. Every feeling in the world is temporary, this one is no different. You are going to make it. x

Decsbetterhalf · 24/07/2017 21:09
Flowers

Do you want to chat about it?

user1494187262 · 24/07/2017 21:15

xxx

we're here for you.
Whatever has happened, there are people here who have been through what you are now

SfaOkaySuperFurryAnimals · 24/07/2017 21:16

You will get fantastic support here, sorry your sadFlowers

youokayhun · 24/07/2017 21:19

Things have been crappy for a little bit but we've ben going though a lot. It was all worth it for me....he text asking if wanted dinner from certain place picking up on his way home and I said I didn't mind, if that's what he wanted and hen it descended into he's unhappy and can I please get my things and post keys through the door. He won't see/speak to me. Nothing

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thestamp · 24/07/2017 21:28

Oh wow. You must be really shocked Sad

How long were you together?

Is there anyone you can phone? Anyone who might come and sit with you?

Decsbetterhalf · 24/07/2017 21:33

Have you got somewhere to go?

PlymouthMaid1 · 24/07/2017 21:51

Blimey what does he expect you to do with no warning at all. At the very least he should stay somewhere else for a while to give you a chance to find somewhere.

MrsPorth · 24/07/2017 22:56

Can you stay with a relative or friend for a few days? Do you have children?

youokayhun · 25/07/2017 13:10

It's going to sound pathetic according to the jury of mumsnet but we've "only" been together for 10 months. Whirlwind romance, I left a precious partner to be with him, we both have children but none together. We live together and have merged as a family and we were so happy, we've moved twice in quick succession, both lost our jobs, my ex partner causes huge issues and I'm going through court proceedings to force a sale of my joint house with him but getting nowhere, we've gone through A LOT so obviously have been under immense strain, but now it appears he just doesn't love me and has remained with me through guilt. I feel sick and can't face life without him. I have up everything to be with him. I was homeless for 4 months and struggled so much to get my own place just before meeting him, I've given it all up and now I have nothing.

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user1494187262 · 26/07/2017 13:58

You left a precious partner?
Why OP?

I'm so sorry it's turned out this way for you but can never understand why people leave 'precious' partners for a whirlwind romance.

Flowers
CryptoFascist · 26/07/2017 13:59

I assume it's a typo for "previous"

user1494187262 · 26/07/2017 14:01

I hope so ...

youokayhun · 26/07/2017 20:19

Yes, sorry, typo for previous!!!

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