Hi
Have a niggling suspicion my husband is cheating. Nothing concrete just this niggling feeling in my gut. Tips on things to look out for .
Things that may help.
1: He has always kept his phone to himself and has everything locked down . He is in the right business that if he wanted me to not look at things he can
2: Never goes out alone. Goes out early for the gym and back before I come home. No nights out with the lads etc. Goes for 2 hour walk at weekend sometimes but always invites me ( safe in the knowledge I would refuse as I have fibromyalgia and find it hard to do that kind of exercise)
3: Has always not been the easiest of person to live with but that's my choice (no judging please). We had a long discussion about our relationship (ok a big argument) and he said he loves me but doesn't think of me as a sexual being more like his best buddy and he does take me for granted.he said this is his problem and he will work on it
4: goes away with work odd nights (again nothing new as always done this) but his call home are shorter, and he talks like he is talking to a mate (does say Love you at the end)
5: Is planning for future events (booking expensive holidays)
6: Woke last night to him on his phone. (Unusual as normally his head hits the pillow and he is asleep.)
Am I a paranoid idiot or should I be alert? What kind of things should I look out for? Not ready to confront him as I have no concrete proof and don't want to look a needy idiot