There have been a few things this year which have made me feel a little suspicious of DH, but perhaps I'm just being paranoid or looking for him doing something (we haven't had a good relationship recently )
The first thing was when he got a new phone in January he put a lock code on it, neither of us had ever had locks on our phones, I only realised he had it one day when I pressed his phone to see the time. I dismissed it as perhaps it had just been in the general set up of the new phone.
Then a couple of weeks ago whilst doing some laundry a piece of paper fell out of his work trousers pocket, I didn't even look at it at the time, just put it on the side. But by chance a couple of days later I picked it up again. DH works in a restaurant so when a drinks order is taken it prints out for him to action, that's what this piece of paper was, just a standard order but in the 'notes' section it said 'make it hot like you' and the servers name on it was female. I've worked in hospitality and know there is alot of 'banter' etc but I felt a bit uneasy about this. I showed it to DH and he said that as he's in a management position he had been keeping the checks with mistakes on!
And the final suspicious behaviour, we have an ipad, which DH uses more often than me. I'm visiting family this weekend and decided to bring it with me, I wouldn't usually bother. I logged on to it on friday evening and tried to look at our joint email, which is always logged in on there, except it had been logged off. I text DH to ask if he'd logged out of it, his reply was that it had asked him to enter the password last time he tried to check emails.
Because this seemed a bit odd to me I had a look at the internet browsing history. It only went back to Thursday. I've never checked the history before and thought perhaps it only showed 2 days browsing, but just looked again now and it still goes back to Thursday.
Am I right to be wondering if he is taking me for a fool? Sorry I've just read this back and realised how long it is.