I am with DP for almost two years. It was great at start, i was very happy. Soon he started changing and becoming someone i cant recognize anymore. Slowly but steadily he got me to the point to be depressed and miserable most of the time. He still talks about marriage and kids but i have this feeling that this would be the worst mistake of my life.His behavior is so strange that i can not make sense of it anymore and his moods changing rapidly.
After what happened recently i feel broken. He is on his 30. Couple of months ago i asked him to sort his gaming hours because he would come back from work, eat and sleep straightaway , wake up at midnight, play games until early hours and go straight to work. I felt like i was a maid and not a partner. He sort it it out and now he plays normal hours and i thought that everything was fine
Couple of days ago my nephew came to stay with me for few hours and he wanted to play some games on pc. When my partner found out he got angry , telling me that no game will run on my pc and if he can not play then no one else will. That went on for about half hour and i couldn't take it anymore and told him that he wont dictate what my nephew or anyone else does and that he is behaving like a child. This resulting in him getting very very upset , telling me that if i say this again we are done ,now he realised who i really am, i put someone elses sperm product above him and i finally reveal my real self. I broke him, i hurt him, he is just a convenience to me, i will regret it, he will revenge me and i have to watch my back, he hates me. He kept me up all night with this nonsense. After a point i stopped trying to make sense and i was just listening
Finally i had to leave for work and i was rushing because i was late. While i was at work he sent me few messages apologizing, telling me that we will have a great life and that he cant wait for me to go home. He also asked if i had any problems because i delayed to go to work. I replied to him two hours later while on a break and i said that i had a very bad day due to everything that happened and i feel like crying all the time.
When i returned home i called him and he asked how things went with work. I said could be worst but he insisted on details. I asked him to give me few minutes, i was up for more than 36 hours (thanks to him) and feeling unwell. He started raging , telling me to f off, i am very selfish because he was worried about my job and i cant answer a simple question and hung up the phone on me. A minute later messaged me to tell me that i dont care about him , i proved it one more time and i know how sensitive he is from yesterday and i carry on hurting him. He added that i should add this to my bad day
At that point i couldnt take it anymore and i didnt reply.An hour later he called me and i didnt hear it . He called 10 times within 15 minutes and left a message that if i dont pick up he will turn his phone off and wont talk to me untill the day after.
Later the same day he pretended that nothing happened and that i am overreacting if i feel hurt and i should not cause so many problems
His behavior on this incident and many others doesnt seem normal at all, i started wondering if he has a mental disorder.