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Am I heading for a big setback or am I actually over him?

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thing1andthing3 · 20/07/2017 22:28

Dh left me earlier this year and in short I was devastated, became suicidal (I had depression before he left and not caused by the marriage) I had a breakdown and I've been treated since with care from the crisis team, doctors , health visitor and numerous friends who I didn't even realise cared about me so much.
My worry is that I am feeling so different suddenly over the past week or so...
I'm not complaining as it's wonderful that I don't feel heartbroken and in so much emotional turmoil/pain everyday. I haven't cried for ages and even the image of him with someone else doesn't actually bother me so much. I can be in his company and genuinely feel like it's easy to be amicable. I don't know it's just strange and I never imagined getting over him. We have dc's together and I was convinced that I will always want him to come back for the rest of my life and wouldn't cope if he found someone else....
Is this all normal and is it what everyone told me it would be like after a few months or am I due a massive set back ? Is it my medication that is masking it all ?

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