Have a long painful horrible thread , a few months ago, incompetence as an act of aggression. Thing were tolerable for a while but have been slipping down hill.
Last night he went for a drink with his brother. In fairness he's not a drinker, hundreds of quids worth of weed a month, but rarely drinks. Came staggering in the door, in a reasonably good mood. Experience has taught me he gets nasty with little provocation so I got the dcs up to bed, except oldest dc, sixteen, who was watching a movie. I don't know what happened, maybe asshole tried to change TV station bit the next thing the bastard was shouting at DC, I asked him to leave the house and he started verbally abusing me. He threw the TV remote and it smashed on the floor. Called me an ugly pig.
I just looked at the fool and thought fuck you. I have a fought my way to a fantastic career ,despite having five small kids and his shite to deal with. I have lost two stone in weight, got new hair cut etc in the last few months.. I'm no Kate moss but I look younger than my age, try to dress well and have been complimented twice in the last couple of days on my confidence , by two people whom I respect greatly.
This wanker has been bumming off me for years. I have two weeks holidays coming up. I am going to get him to leave, have been to a solicitor about getting him out. Thankfully were not married.