Maybe you're in the same boat
You chat to a guy for weeks practically 24/7 then BANG he stopped responding, you look over the texts again and again trying to work out if you've said something to offend him.
Feeling hurt you pick yourself back up and start talking to somebody new BANG same again, but this point you feel it's got to be something that you are doing.
Pat yourself back down and move on.
Finally you think you've met someone different and drop your guard, exchanging text and phone calls and all
of a sudden he is sat on your sofa watching Inbtweeners on a Tuesday night... you think you've finally find a nice young man, and wasn't hinting to do anything but watching telly and talk.
You think to yourself well if he stops texting it's definitely something I've said, but no weeks after you're still exchanging text then all of a sudden BANG back to square one