Morning you beautiful nest of vipers.
Looking for some advice. I am single. Have been since January and in my (stupid) quest for a new man I have fallen for the worst possible choice ever. A colleague.
He works on a different site. We end up talking on the phone a lot due to mine and his role.
Anyway, hes lovely. We get on really well, have a laugh, flirt ect. He knows I like him (I've told him) and I get the impression it's a two way thing. He sends me kisses on the end of emails (When asked if they were a typo, he rang and told me they were big ones), If I sound off he checks up on me, rings me to wind me up ect and it's to the point our mutual collegues have picked up on it and commented on it.
So here's the killer. He has a very attractive girlfriend.
I have tried to keep a distance but it's very difficult when he's so brazenly flirting. Normally I would just cut all contact and walk away. Sadly, this isn't an option because we work together (Mental note - this is why we don't fall for colleagues!) and now I'm on a fine line trying not to be an utter twat but keeping the professional line - bloody difficult as I'm naturally friendly and upbeat.
How do I get the distance without being an utter arse? I've never had a crush on a colleague. In fact its very rare I become a girly, preteen mess over anyone... So literally have no clue...
Bollocks to it all.
(Thank you in advance)