My partner is really down right now, he's not for much work on at the minute and I've recently lost my job (we moved into our new home less than 3 weeks ago) so money is a huge factor in this....however I'm on eggshells, he seems to dislike everything about me and what can I do if I can't be myself? Apparently I'm controlling because I naturally assume the housewife role (were not married but even when I worked it was only part time due to children, his and mine, none together) so me making the dinners is me being controlling? We had a big talk yesterday which didn't go very smoothly, he left and went to get on with a few things immediately texting to say he's sorry he doesn't know why he's so angry and he loves me etc then this morning I turned around in bed and he was sort of sitting up and looking on my direction...also turning around I think, but it "jumped" as wasn't expecting it and it pissed him off then he was looking for something and I asked what (incase id seen it) and that started him off again about how he's a grown man and he's capable of looking and I'm just on him all the time etc. I feel like an idiot 😞