I have been seeing a guy for a while. By seeing I mean meeting up for coffee, dinner, the theatre, cooking him dinner at my place, going over to his for a catch up. We text each other most days. We have moved onto giving each other a hug and a kiss on the lips when we meet and he will often put his hand on my back or my arm in conversation. It's just I don't know how to move things on to at least a bit of kissing. Neither of us are young and we have both come out of very long term relationships and are somewhat wary of getting hurt. In the distant past, I would just have gone to the pub with someone and got roaring drunk, but that wouldn't work now. We live in a very isolated community and neither of us can go anywhere at all without driving. We also have kids to consider. His are all grown up, but mine are primary aged and they are with me for the majority of the time. Suggestions?