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I've posted here for a hand hold DA my fault?

4 replies

Ladybird1979 · 15/07/2017 14:53

Had a blazer with my now ex partner. I got hurt don't want to say too much that might be identifying. He got arrested. I'm devastated and regret calling police. I'm refusing to make a statement but the damage is done.

He's so angry and has vowed revenge in ruining my life and counter allegations will come I expect as he always will turn things to be my fault he has visited family and friends in the past to show them what I'm really like.

He'll never come back and I'm so upset. Why did I report him. I feel like a fool.

It's all my fault. I've ruined everything.

OP posts:
isitjustme2017 · 15/07/2017 15:00

Hang on, if you got hurt then why is it your fault?? You don't really give much away so its hard to offer advice.

The fact you say he has visited friends and family in the past to show them what I'm really like tells me he is an abusive arsehole.

Sounds like you are well rid of him.

Squeegle · 15/07/2017 15:03

You did the right thing. Why do you think that you want him back?

Justhadmyhaircut · 15/07/2017 15:05

You are only a fool for not making a statement. .

Take a deep breath and take control of your life - make a statement and keep him away. .

DoIDontIhavethetalk · 15/07/2017 15:07

You sound just like me 18 months ago. Make that statement. Do it. Or one day you will come out of your front door in a body bag.

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