So DH and I have been together 10 years DS who is 5. At first our sex life was great but it started becoming less frequent maybe once every 2weeks a. Few years into the relationship. Not really enough for me but everything else really good so you compromise don't you. He refused to have sex right the way through pregnancy. After it was perhaps every couple of months. Re was reluctant to try for another baby but then agreed although getting him in the mood more than once a month was like pulling teeth. We've given up on the idea of another child now which breaks my heart. He's now struggling to either get an erection or maintain it. He's been to the dr and had bloods done all fine. He's now putting off going back. When entry and discuss it it's all about him never how it makes me feel. I feel rejected, fat ugly and undesirable. One of my best friends who is a bloke assures me I'm anything but those things and if we weren't both married he most definately would as apparently I'm very sexy. But my DH makes me feel anything but. We are intimate kissing and cuddling he does loads for me and my son but I have a high libido. When I see women on here complains of their DH always after one thing I actually feel jealous and would love a low libido so this wasn't a huge problem. Last time my DH ended up using a vibrator on me, but I want him. I do love him but can't imagine life without sex forever. I end up sobbing about this so often. Has anyone successfully turned this around? Both his previous LTR have ended with the girl having an affair so Might be a long term problem sorry it's so long