Every time I try to leave he begs me to stay

[PlayOnWurtz]

I Being a mug stay. He tells me all my faults. Does nothing to change we start fighting again I go to leave and so the cycle continues.

Someone help me to please leave before he completely kills off any shred of my self esteem and dignity that remains

If you want to leave how is he able to persuade you so easily?

What's stopping you leaving? Finance? Lack of support? Kids? Place to stay?

I have severe health issues/disabilities and can't work AND run a home. At the moment I seem to be doing both despite him being out of work and yet I'm still at fault and not doing enough I'm exhausted and have been hospitalised 4 times this month alone due to exacerbation of my conditions caused by stress. Put simply. I'm too sick to walk out.

Sounds like you're too sick to stay as well?

Quite. I'm in a bit of a mess really.

Sounds like you're pretty damn amazing to me. You're working, running a home, dealing with him putting you down and your illness and keeping on going. You can end this relationship, you can. x

I'm sure you posted about sadly suffering multiple pregnancy losses quite recently. Why are you ttc if you're trying to leave?

How have you actually tried to leave?

You sound strong. Can you kick him out? Enlist a friend for a week just to settle? Sounds like there is no great option but staying with him isn't right. No one should treat you that way!

We aren't ttc any more for obvious reasons. Our last loss was in April, we are still waiting for the pathology results from that loss, now just for information purposes and closure than anything else.

I've been to the council and got my housing option information from them. Yes I have tried.

If I have a health crisis I have no way of raising the alarm and getting help. He does some stuff like the cooking but everything else I do.