Why won't he just let me go?

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I've posted on here before and had such wonderful supportive comments.
I have finally had the courage to tell my EA husband that I am not happy and that I want to leave.
But he's carrying on like nothing has happened, refuses to entertain the idea of me leaving.
He won't talk to me about us at all,he's just burying his head in the sand. He knows I won't just walk out,because of our children,so what do I do next??

Go down the legal route, you are an adult with your own free will, he can't stop you from leaving him.

Like all the other emotional abusive twats, he's hoping you'll stop you nonsense and put up just like always, why do you even care what he thinks, you need to do this for you.

Don't wait for his 'permission' to go. Get yourself some legal advice and maybe talk to Women's Aid for some good practical advice. They'll know how to help - sadly, they will have heard your story many times over.