He won't kiss me :(

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My DP and I have been together for 6 and half years. We have always had amazing sex even now. But one problem is he won't kiss me.
I'm quite a loving person and I'd love nothing more than to kiss and really make out before taking it to the bedroom.
Instead sex starts my touching each other and goes from there.
I've tried kissing him but he just pecks me on the lips as if to say "no I don't want to kiss" and that's it.
Don't get me wrong there are time where we so kiss passionately during sex but it doesn't happen very often. I'm sure this isn't normal.
Is he just not attracted to me?
He is lovely to me and he really looks after me and cares for me and is an amazing dad to our DC but this is the only issue.

I'm assuming you haven't actually asked him why? It could be that he simply doesn't like kissing...... that's what it looks like.
Has this become a recent issue or has he always been like this?

Were you happy with this for the last 6 years, or did you think it would change?

Is your breath ok?

I make sure my breath doesn't smell bad lol (that did cross my mind) so don't think it's that. He's not always been like this, we used to kiss all the time a lot when we first got together (as most new couples do anyway) but over the years it's gradually kind of fizzled out.
I have asked him and he has told me that he just doesn't like kissing, but like I said it's not always been like this. Do you think he's bored of me?

Some people just genuinely don't like kissing. I don't think he's bored of You, as you said you have a good sex life.

I have to say though, when I started going off my ex, kissing was this first thing I stopped wanting to do. Sorry if that's not what you want to hear and doesn't mean this is the case for you DH.

What are his teeth like? I ask as I've lost a couple and it's put me off kissing my DH. In my case I'm hoping the implants that are due soon will make the difference (for me - DH has never commented and would happily snog as before if I'd let him).

I think kissing is the first thing to go when someone isn't feeling the closeness and intimacy.

I would not even be able to get aroused without kissing.

I don't like kissing, I do it as little as possible, but it doesn't mean I don't love and fancy my DH. I just find tongue sarnies repulsive. Perhaps he is like me.

I can't actually imagine sex without kissing tbh. Even one night stands and quickies have involved kissing.

I'm reading this and feel concerned as
I feel exactly like you and if it is the first thing to go then that makes
Me think ?

I'm not crazy about kissing or hugging if I'm honest, my dh sometimes laughs as he knows when I'm trying to pretend I'm enjoying an embrace. I have loved my dh for many years and he is as perfect as a person can be and absolutely not a reflection on touch I love/fancy him.

How much, not (ironically!) touch.

He's affectionate in other ways, he'll happily cuddle up to me and stuff like that.
I'm just the kind of person that likes affection, in fairness a lot of the time it's late at night when the DC are asleep and he's tired himself so probably can't be bothered because the few times where he does kiss me is during the day when the DC are at school and we have the house to ourselves.
Even then it's really horny kisses (because he's so turned on) not kissing where it's loving. I can't explain it really lol

Yeah I feel like that I only ever get kissed when it's leading up to something .