The spark is dying out

[christeenaloveslife]

my husband and i were school sweethearts, since year 7, i can remember transition day like yesterday. It's amazing how time flies. but after so long, i guess the spark just dies. I'm not saying it's the biggest factor, but since hiring a private tutor for my DS, i've grown kind of attached. Especially, since my husband is away on business trips every fortnight.
Lets refer to the private tutor as Richard. Richard session with my DS is usually at 9pm because of his other work. they finish at 10pm. I admire his hard and late night work, so i call him in for tea before leaving. I wont go into much detail of last time, but we got too intimate (when my DS was sleeping).
my DH havent gave me a night like that since forever. it's sad looking back on our history, in a happy way, and real sad to see where it's heading
please advice.

Do not go there.........that's my best advice

How the fuck do you get DH might be gay from that???!!! OP if you are looking for us to validate infidelity you ain't gonna find it here. Piss or get off the pot is the phrase you are looking for

Gay???? Whattttt?

No evidence in your post that your husband is gay, what a bloody weird post.

You have cheated on your husband. No amount of bemoaning the spark going out of your marriage is an excuse for that. And you were playing with fire long before you actually did anything physical by the sounds of it.

I suggest you dispense with the services of the tutor as soon as possible - your son's exams must be done soon surely. In the meantime absolutely no fraternising with the tutor, he leaves straight afterwards.

Start an open, honest and adult dialogue with your husband about your relationship. You either need to work on the marriage going forward, or end it. Simples.

I was responding to the deleted post by the way!