After almost thirty years with an increasingly financially and emotionally abusive husband, it ends today. I feel incredibly relieved and a bit sad for my dc who would undoubtedly prefer the status quo.
It's as amicable as it can be I suppose mostly because I suspect he has stashed money away and he is being pleasant because of that. Tbh if he has then it's a small price to pay in my eyes.
So the start of my new life and peace at last. Of course he might not remain amicable but it feels not as bad knowing I can lock the doors and keep him out.
I've read lots of the advice on here over the last eighteen months and feel much better prepared than I would have been and ready for what might lay ahead 
to all.