Drugs

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Do people ever leave them behind

Well he has good job but can still be tight in my opinion

People with drug issues are generally lots of hard work, occasionally worth it but usually not.

If you suspect he is using and can't talk about it with him there isn't enough trust in your relationship for long term happiness.

It's OK to be single, in fact it's rather good, after the initial terror.

Thing is how can I find out , I want to no cuz if he been lying again I don't want him near me or my child but I have no way of knowing it's doing my head in

Thing that gets to me is not the being single but the fact we have a child and he is stuck to me through her

I think it sounds like he's still using sorry.
Has the sniffling started out of the blue?
Like he wasn't sniffling for ages but it's just starting again?
I'm assuming he actually did stop for a period of time and you think it's started again?
Or was you aware he was using and he's said he has stopped but you don't think he has?

You no I'm not sure , but since I can remember I think the nose and the mood swings have played a part, last few weekends I personally think it's worse, he blames it on working outside but I don't buy that

I don't think Coke would make your nose run like that. Sniffing yes, but running, not really.

Even sniffing alone isn't a sure sign that someone is on Coke.

If they're an addict and taking it every day then they will be very very skinny (it destroys your appetite) and paranoid.

If you split up would he bothered you had a child together?

Would he do what he could to support your child or would he work out what he could do to get away with the minimum possible?

Is he a good person to have around your child?

I don't think he is good to be around and I think he would only battle it for while to get at me then I think he would lose interest, cuz he int had much interest so far in my eyes

Coke has made my nose run in previous, stupider years. I also know a few fat addicts.

If he has a history of drug issues and he is being evasive then run for the hills, you owe your child better than this.

Wish I could find out once and for all

And you owe yourself.

You deserve decent, mutually fulfilling relationships and/or respect for going it alone. You don't have to put up with this shit just because you have a child together.

Why are you bothered about finding out once and for all? The trust has clearly gone. What does this relationship actually add to your life or your child's life?

are you together? just occured to me if you could get gold of a sample of his hair you could send it off for drug testing?

I'm sure you can order the urine drugs test of line. They work pretty much like a pregnancy test