WWYD

[user7680]

Right. Been with DH for 6 yrs now getting fed up as he does no housework at all if I don't ask him to. When I get so mad the maximum he does is wash up the dishes full stop.never sweeps,never mops never hovers . Plays with DD drops her off to school,never helped with night feeds when she was a baby was just getting drunk every night still does this now. I feel like a slave and resent him so much that I can't sleep with him so obviously we sleep in different rooms now no sex for almost a year ...Am just fed up of asking him to do things as we end up arguing anyway most of the times. Am planning to get out as I feel like am being bullied, abused and treated like a slave however DD is 3 and adores her father but I wouldn't leave her. We both work. WWYD??

Leave and look forward to the freedom.

Your daughter can still love her father without you being together. Do you really want her growing up seeing your marriage and his drunkenness as an example of how relationships should be? If the answer is no, it's time to get the fuck out.

Leave. DD can still have a good loving relationship with her dad even if she doesn't live with him and you will be teaching her a good lesson in life; you will be teaching her self worth and self respect. You deserve better, get out (or get him out) and move on with your life.

Thanks for all replies xx

Have you had a proper sit down conversation with him detailing how you feel and what you would like his contribution to be? I'm not talking about telling him what to do but rather a discussion on equal contributions from both of you.

Yes a lot of times. He denies it all and claims that he 'cleans' but I don't see it apparently

You are married to a lazy selfish git. You really can't continue this.