This is probably the wrong place to post this, but I need help please! I'm sorry for using mums net
Hey! I'm 24, a guy (I'm bi, and only came out at the start of this year to my Mum. I was terrified.). I know this probably sounds funny as I'd never have expected it, but I met someone on Tinder. We got chatting, and arranged to meet up.
We first met a week after speaking in February. He was away at Uni until last week, but now lives in the same city as me. I met up with him in his Uni town (it was only a 40 min train journey) around 3 or 4 times. I've met up with him locally 3 times, and we went out together last night.
But I'm not sure where it's all going. How many dates do people usually have? I've never had a relationship. It just feels like we've been speaking for a long time and I'd love to be in a relationship with him. I hinted to him last night "I'd love you to be my boyfriend" and he said "well... i'm boyfriend material" but there was nothing more.
I have hinted a few times but I don't want to push him away or make him feel uneasy or like I keep going on.
He introduced me to his best friend last night and after a while, his best friend said to me "you'd both seem like a really cute couple". Last night, the guy I'm seeing also put a picture on his snapchat story of us both with 3 hearts. I sent it to a friend of mine and he said we looked really cute together.
Where do you think this is going? We kissed loads last night too and I just loved his company and didn't want to go home. His friend noticed us kiss too (I don't make it obvious... I'm quite discreet!).
Thank you x