hi some advice please i been seeing this man for 2 years i do love him but hes been engaged for 4 yrs to a girl 20 years his junior,hes promised her kids even though he is a grandfather ive also saw him on a dating site tagged saying his single last week ive asked him why hes on there he said ive told you find yourself a good guy but i still want fun times with you, not been to his for 4 weeks now but i text him last night to see if thats it between us and replied hes sorry hes been busy and i will definitely be seeing you soon and that he loves me etc, now he lives in a shared household shared kitchen bathroom but has his own room hes hes not allowed move anyone in his fiance lives with her parents still no savings between them no dates for wedding set all his money goes on his car decorating it making it more sporty with stickers etc shouldnt he be saving for a house or a wedding so why did he propose to a 22 year old hes 43 i have my own 4 bedroom house