Hi. I really need some help as I'm at my wits end of what to do. I'm 26. I've been with my boyfriend for two years. To start with my libido was great. Now it's not. It hasn't been for a good year. Sex doesn't interest me at all. I don't want sex. It's not him in any way. I love him I find him attractive, the sex is good. I just have no drive for it what so ever. My boyfriend is aware of this as I have spoken to him about it and tried to find a cause. But I can't. I've come off my pill to see if that's as affecting my sex drive. I tried time off my anti depressants. No change. I've had this before in previous relationships as well. Recently, when we do have sex, I find in painful also. I've experienced this a lot in the past but not to this extent it is now. It's a pain in my lower stomach and it's very uncomfortable. Tonight my
Boyfriend and I were having sex and he could see it was hurting my stomach. So he stopped and said what's the point in this all you do is lay there in pain and you don't even want to be having sex with me. Both sort of true. However, through no choice or fault of my own. I've been to the doctor about both. Nothing has been found to be the route of the problem. I could go back again but I'm scared they just won't help. Has anyone else experienced either of these problems and have any answers for me? It's really getting me down as it's causing problems for me and my boyfriend :(