Hiya,
I wondered if anyone might have any suggestions. I've been seeing a lovely bloke for the last 3 months. I fancy him rotten, and everything is going splendidly except for the bedroom side of things. He's very into to me and eager to please, and regularly gives me orgasms with his tongue. But when we try PIV he tends to go soft withut orgasming in around 1-2 minutes - thats if we get that far. Often he goes soft as soon as we put the condom on.
I really enjoy our bedroom time, but its getting to the point where I am desprate for a jolly good seeing to via PIV, and he is clearly becoming very distressed at his failures to perform for me.
Has anyone else experienced this and has a suggestion on what might work to resolve it? He seems to wake up with very solid erections when I stay over, so it clearly works. And I can get him erect with hand or mouth. We just can't work out why it won't work for PIV.
He reckons he might have been single too long (has been 5 years he says) and be too used to his hand over stimulating him? Is that even possible?
He's made a GP appointment, but I reckon it can't be medical if he wakes up with erections?
Kate