I realise this may sound completely irrational but I need to sound it out and I don't want to bring it up with my h. When I got together with my now husband (about 4 yrs ago) he had a very needy ex on the scene,he broke up with her long before I came along but when we go together she started causing trouble by calling him day and all hours of the night wanting lifts here and there, coming round his house and leaving pictures of the both of them together up on the wall- that was odd ! She had got married herself but she used to turn up and say she was jealous of him being with someone new . At the time he felt responsable for her as she had family problems but then the more she began to demand his attention the more he said to her he didn't want to feel like he had to look her anymore and he wants a life with me she didn't respect that at all and the phonecalls got more and more with hanging up , so he changed his number but then she started emailing . He changed that too, and we have since moved away . Since then I have been so worried about her lack of care to try and sabotage us etc . I sometimes check her social media account which does me no good ay all and I know I must sound crazy! but I really am scared of us bumping into her and it all starting again ! and I'm unsure if this is anything to be concerned about but , my husband collects old motorbikes , especially yellow ones, to take to shows etc, he always has done , she has gone and bought herself one which she says she is going to take to all the shows, am I being paranoid and blowing this all into something in my head?This is turning me into a bag of worry and its stupid really ,but I just don't want all the drama she caused before going on again .