My husband talks so harshly to me. I'm not innocent don't get me wrong, I too speak harshly sometimes but lately it feels like he takes out a lot of things on me, like if the car breaks down itsy fault although realistically it could have been a number of things. He has a go at me today because the guy we needed to fix something said come back Tues and I agreed and he was angry and said oh I should have gone in. I just feel so drained by some of his behaviour. Arguing or pointing out that I'm not happy with something he's said very rarely ends in him apologising .. more like an argument/him getting stropey. I just don't know if I'm over reacting.