Hello. My sister is in a relationship with this guy for over a year. I would appreciate some opinions over an incident that happened yesterday. They live apart at the moment, 9 hour difference. Yesterday they had arranged to spend sometime together (internet) at 3 am our time so she sat and wait. He called and said that a friend of his brother (brother rarely sees him and the friend they met once ) called him and asked him to go and help him move because the friends that were supposed to help him they couldn't make it. My sister got upset telling him that she was waiting half the night for him and why he agreed to help someone that he barely knows to move. He replied that its matter of honor and that he will be disgraced by the family and be dishonorable if he doesnt keep his word. Its just all seem too much, i never before heard him or his family to have any sort of ideas like this. She was upset but she told him that its done now and that he should think of her next time instead . He got upset , broke his phone and then the drama started. To cut the long story short he is adamant that its her fault that he broke the phone, its her fault that he had to buy another and her fault that "he wont afford to eat this month". Its surely his hands smashed that phone and i dont know what to think of the situation. All i can see is that he tries to make her feel as guilty as possible. H e also said that because he had to buy new phone and couldn't help the person to move he is disgraced himself and his brother. Personally i think is a lot of bs but she is so confused. She offered to pay for his new phone but he refuses while keeps blaming her