where do you set your boundries in a realationship with DP/DH/DW?

[happycat]

I was talking to friends the other evening and was amazed by what boundries she has about her DH cheating on her.Was wondering if anyone felt the same.Mine are sex text /e mails with another woman,snogging,full sex and oral sex.I get pissed off if my dh starts to give any woman sexual attention and it is not for me.I am not a jealous person I know he has female friends,eyes up other women,looks at porn and of course has a past.My friend just drew the line at full sex.What do you all think.Her DP is not aware of these boundries though

Blu, is your friend called Bill by any chance?

My dp is the first bloke I've not been paranoidly jealous about. But tbh, I don't want him snogging anyone else.

Sorry hope I didn't offend you.

samcj - not offended at all if that was directed at me (though of course could be completely off on the wrong tangent and you could have meant someone else

I would be soo cross if DP ever even raise dhis hand to me let alone landed me one even a tiny slap - that is beyond the boundaries of our relationship.

As for the intimate side of things - I would not expect him to have a relationship with another woman in which he confided things about us or our relationahip or had any kind of intimacy - physical or mental that was within the realms of it being exclusive to them - not sure I have put that ruight but I expect total and utter honesty from DP and I don;t think he would ever betray me even being close to another woman in a way he shouldn;t be let alone sleeping with her.

I wouldn't dream of confiding something in another man that I could in DP or letting another man touch me or try and be intimate with me - It would soil all DP and I have together.