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Is my boyfriend in the right ?

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JanetN23rt · 25/06/2017 01:03

I'm sorry for asking here but I just needed other people's (women's) advice.
Basically me and my boyfriend have been together a month or so now, and everything is great.
He's perfect, caring, smart, great in bed (finally found a giver) and funny as hell. I do not have a problem what so ever, however yesterday, he came over to my house, he usually does on the weekend but this was different as I haven't seen him all week. It was going great untill I go upstairs without telling him, and I message my ex because he was feeling a bit blue. My boyfriend comes upstairs and in a sarcastic tone said "glad you're focusing on your ex". To me, it sounded rude so I threw my phone and kept staring at him saying "I can't have friends? Fine."
He said "that's not what I meant" but I didn't care and I stormed downstairs. We made up a few minutes later (as we always do), but to me it sounded like he was being an ass.
I know that I take him for granted as all he wants us to look after me and i'm truly a moody bitch, and I love him to bits as he's the only boyfriend that genuinely cares about me and not sex, I'm the one who always has to initiate it (he might be asexual ?), nonetheless I dont know if I should apologise to him and make it up to him.. I go mardy atleast once a day and he doesn't give up, he just laughs or smiles or calls me pretty and a few minutes later I'm not mardy anymore.
I should probably note that since his best friend kissed me, he's been a bit more strict on me seeing other guys. Like I was going to get a nipple piercing, accompanied by this guy I know my whole life and he was a bit jealous though he didn't tell me. Any tips on how not to be moody???

OP posts:
HotelEuphoria · 25/06/2017 09:54

Nah this is a made up thread.

PaulDacresFeministConscience · 25/06/2017 09:54

You sound extremely immature and manipulative. Your boyfriend - if this is genuine - sounds like an adult and you sound like you are behaving like a moody teenager.

You want tips on how not to be "mardy" - here's one: Don't act like a fucking knob.

My advice would be to your boyfriend - dump the spoiled princess and find a grown-up to have a relationship with.

pringlecat · 25/06/2017 10:46

If this isn't made up, it sounds made up. And that's worth reflecting on.

When your life sounds like a bad piece of creative writing, you know something has to change.

PacificDogwod · 25/06/2017 10:48

You sound hard work.
And need to work on your communication skills.

rightwhine · 25/06/2017 10:53

A tip for your boyfriend - leave you and find someone who isn't hard work.
A tip for you - grow up and treat others how you want to be treated.

flumpybear · 25/06/2017 10:56

Sorry OP but you're the one totally in the wrong

What he would write :-

Dear MN vipers
I saw my new girlfriend today after not seeing her for a week, was really looking forward to a night with her. She went upstairs to text her ex and I was a bit miffed, told her I was and she threw her phone and stormed off - perhaps she wants the ex and not me, what next

Dear boyfriend -LTB she wouldn't be such a spoilt brat if she actually liked and wNted you, perhaps she only likes the sex

Catch my drift OP?

NoFuckingRoomOnMyBroom · 25/06/2017 11:30

I take it you're very young as it all sounds very teenage angst bullshit? Hmm

HildaOg · 25/06/2017 14:47

You're too young to be dating. Focus on your education. You need it.

GriefLeavesItsMark · 25/06/2017 14:50

Don't you have to be over 16 to have your nipples piece d (I didn't know it was still a thing)

MoodyOne · 25/06/2017 18:47

@Teabay, I am not simple, the yoga was only a suggestion...

BoneyBackJefferson · 25/06/2017 18:56

he sounds like he is about to start to be the victim in an abusive relationship.

user1495832265 · 25/06/2017 19:25

😂😂

Try harder next time OP .

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