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Does she regret not being with her ex?

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Raggybones17 · 21/06/2017 22:44

The other night my girlfriend had dinner with her ex, they haven't seen each other for about 2 years. Firstly he told her to dress nice and took her for an expensive meal and dropped her home. Later that night there was a selfie of them together and he had put a statement about how he was too immature for her back then and that she replied that looking back she had let a good catch go. Should I be jealous/worried?

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Raggybones17 · 22/06/2017 01:06

I think that there was more to it that just friends meeting. They obviously talked about the past for him to say that he was too immature to handle her and she replied looking back I lost a good catch. Why did she even enter into that convo if she is happy with me?

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grungeneverdied · 22/06/2017 01:06

If my girlfriend went to dinner with an ex and it was basically a date her stuff would be outside in the morning. I'm sure she'd do the same for me. Complete lack of respect. You need to get some self respect bag it up and move on mate you don't deserve treatment like that.

Brahms3rdracket · 22/06/2017 12:29

Definitely treating you as a fool and back up plan. It's only been 2 months, finish it and move on.

Barbaro · 22/06/2017 13:12

No dump her. She's being disrespectful no matter the length of your relationship. She wants back with him, so dump her before she cheats, although she basically just did.

Tiredbutnotyetretired · 22/06/2017 13:47

Another one here that thinks she is disrespectful and taking you for a mug.
Move on before u get entangled in thier mess

Raggybones17 · 22/06/2017 20:09

I think that there are many red flags with this relationship and I think it's best to maybe end it. I also have my eye on someone new and I felt bad but I've realised it's because there are problems in this relationship.

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Raggybones17 · 23/06/2017 16:55

I had it out won my Girlfriend. Her reaction was to be arsey and pissed off. She is pissed if I've called her out. I'm not even entertaining it anymore, she hesitated when I asked if she still had feeling and came back with excuses. When she is home I'm leaving that behind.

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HildaOg · 23/06/2017 17:02

Why wait til she comes home? Block her now and get to know the new lady...

Raggybones17 · 23/06/2017 17:14

@HildaOg

Haha! That cheered me up that post! I think I'm going to cut my losses, this amongst other stuff so I'm going to end things as sad as it is it's probably for the best.

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AufderAutobahn · 23/06/2017 18:27

Get rid of her, she does not sound worth the stress and drama and I'm sure you can do better than her.

AlcoholandIrony · 24/06/2017 12:39

I think you know that you can't be with your gf anymore. Your most recent post says that this relationship is too full on for her. I think you need to respect that and you both need to move on

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