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bunnyluv · 21/06/2017 08:50

I've been sleeping with someone six years younger. We both agreed it would be just sex.
We don't text or chat only to arrange a meet up.
Thing is when we do hook up we spend a lot of the time in a naked embrace talking, before the sex, laughing and talking about our week.
I decided that if we are having this much rapport we should be able to
text each other even on days we are not hooking up but he won't return any of my messages.
We are both single, both work full time.
My texts are just general like this past weekend he went to visit his family and I texted on Monday saying "how was home" he still hasn't responded.
What do I do? I love the sex and I'm
Not sure I want a relationship but it's just decent and respectful to reply my messages? Is a friendship too much to ask for ?

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noego · 21/06/2017 08:59

If you text regularly what would you have to talk about in your naked embrace.
Beware getting to invested in a FWB relationship. It is what it is. NSA sex. Period.

TheNaze73 · 21/06/2017 09:02

You sound over invested already. Most people in these arrangements don't want the tedium of texting & are out to scratch the sex itch only.
They'll be plenty of other people out there who can give you what you need but, I really think you're pissing against the wind here. You both agreed to just sex after all.

TheFifthKey · 21/06/2017 09:05

You agreed to something and that's what he's sticking to. There's nothing wrong with how he acts. And a good rule of thumb I read here is that it's not how a man treats you before sex that shows you how he feels about you, it's how he treats you after.

Only1scoop · 21/06/2017 09:06

He just wants the ride no chit chat inbetween meeting.

Loopytiles · 21/06/2017 09:07

He only wants sex. If you want more, even if just friendliness!, he's not your man.

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