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Moving on after relationship ending

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Pugfather · 20/06/2017 20:57

Hi first post ever on here, 5 years has collected the last of his things from my home (I own in my name) relationship has not been right for a while,ex partner was suffering mh issues schizophrenia got help then stopped meds tried to help him in many ways.He became jealous of my niece and was nearly sectioned three times.After trying to hold together I found a receipt in his wallet for a gay bath house near his work finally snapped and said he had to leave and it's over.I became his parent in the end making sure he had money protecting him .He has left past week has been a relief I'm finally sleeping again and have peace of mind.He collected his final bits today he s moving back up north and trying to sort his lie mental health team transferring him to new area.Just mixed emotion I know is the right thing for all.Sorry for long post

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noego · 20/06/2017 21:53

You've already started. "Huge relief and sleeping again." It can only get better can't it?

heyday · 20/06/2017 21:55

It's onwards and upwards now.....look forwards, don't look back x

Pugfather · 20/06/2017 22:17

Thank you feeling calmer and no longer guilt free for saying no to him earlier about giving it another go.Friend has sent me a screenshot of him on a dating website saying logged in yesterday .Big kick up my bum to make me no longer feel guilty or responsible for him.

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noego · 20/06/2017 22:32

You never were responsible for him. You only thought you were. In truth you belong to no-one and no-one is your responsibility. With the exception of children of course.

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