Does she fancy me?

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Hi.

So recently I've been getting to closer to an acquaintance and we have become friends. We have been meeting up weekly, sometimes twice a week, but I'm not sure if she sees me as more than a friend.

We have deep conversations about personal things such as previous/current relationships, health, and just all things life. How do I know if she is just enjoying the friendship or if it is more than friends?

Are you male or female? Are you confident she fancies whatever gender you are?

I think generally, you can tell if there is chemistry between you or if you are purely platonic. If you think you detect some sexual tension, you are probably right.

Have you asked her?

You shouldn't have to ask if she's interested you'd know 👍🏻

Nice x-post, grunge

Also, how would we know?
You're there - you'll figure it out with time.

I can feel that there is chemistry, I catch her playing with her hair and giving me a lot of eye contact, she compliments me but not directly, also some of the things she says I feel are said towards me but in an indirect way. I think that I am hard to read as I can be quite shy and I'm not sure I have an obvious ques towards her, however I am attracted to her.

Well, sounds like a good start

I don't want to say anything unless I'm sure as I don't want to ruin the friendship or make things awkward etc.

Just to let you know the hair playing thing doesn't mean anything ! I know lots of people who play with their hair for many reasons x

Yes, I'm one of those people who plays with their hair a lot and I sincerely hope not everyone I meet thinks I fancy them

OP, how do you know her?

Mutual friends.

.......any more info?....

It was a night out for a friends birthday and this she was there and we got chatting. We've met up at a few other social events with friends and then formed our own friendship group as we swapped numbers, or went from there.

Are you generally rubbish at picking up on signals? Have you ever completely misjudged the situation. If yes - you are going to have to take the longer road.
If not - just find the monent to go in for the kiss - and if she likes you she will kiss pu back and if she doesn't she will turn her cheek.
Just man up and find your moment!

Or woman up!
Good luck x