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Something's missing......

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unorthOdox · 20/06/2017 13:25

Not entirely sure what I'm expecting to gain from posting as I should be old enough to work this out for myself! But I'm so confused....

I've been seeing new fella for 4 months - was a bit on/off to start with but things good now.

We get on well, make each other laugh, have great sex and are attracted to each other but..... something feels like it's missing??
Never had this feeling before in a new relationship and I really can't put my finger on it.
We've both agreed on this but both feel compelled to try and stick at it to see what happens...

Is it worth it?? Any thoughts or similar experiences ?

OP posts:
frogsgoladidahdidah · 20/06/2017 13:31

If you don't feel it, then you don't feel it. You can't force it (IMO)

Hermonie2016 · 20/06/2017 13:39

Definitely don't force it.Be completely yourself and see if the dynamic changes.

I would trust your instinct however, looking back I had strange feelings with my stbxh but we got on so well.In my case I believe ex was trying too hard to get me to like him..post marriage he dropped the pretence.

TheNaze73 · 20/06/2017 13:52

You cannot force chemistry

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